Chronicles of Harkle

Harry Isn’t Creating Change, He’s Creating Division And Hate

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There’s an old saying everyone on the face of the Earth knows. “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.” So it becomes maddening when the man who believes he is creating change is Prince Harry. He is not the person everyone thought he was. He doesn’t believe in unity, only division. His jealousy of his brother, William, Prince of Wales, has overshadowed any hope he ever had of feeling important.

Brittany of the Royal News Network said in her latest video that Harry is bitter because he was born second and would never be King. I agree with her analogy that he lives in an alternate reality where he is the most important man in the world who can continue to trash his family but still have an in with them. He is beyond being reasoned with, and it’s all because of one woman, Meghan Markle, better known as “my wife.”

Harry The Racist And Dealing With His Trauma

While I could explain how Meghan has brainwashed him, I won’t do that. Why? Because I’ve done it hundreds of times already. Also, Harry’s bad behaviour now is more extreme than we’ve experienced. So let’s jump back for a second to his twenties.

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Harry was well-known during his early twenties as “the party prince” for self-explanatory reasons. If memory serves, he took drugs, drank, and was even kicked out of nightclubs. Heck, he even became notorious for scuffling with the paparazzi.

Let’s not forget the racist gaffe he made towards his then-girlfriend, South African Chelsy Davy, when he said, “At least she’s not black or anything,” or even what he said to his fellow servicemen who were Pakistani.

The World Was Sympathetic

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[Credit: BBC] Charles, Diana and newborn Harry in 1984

We were sympathetic towards his plight as he had never quite gotten over the death of his mother, Diana, Princess of Wales, in late August 1997. Harry used it as a crutch while they could not recover from something traumatic. He still does as every chance he gets; he mentions that he is her son and his wife and daughter are Diana reincarnated. We get it already. You lost your mother and cannot get over it.

Blaming other people for what happened won’t bring her back. Harry said once that he never spoke about his mother’s death because it wouldn’t undo what happened. He was right. However, talking about his feelings with William, who lost her that day, would’ve helped. Meghan’s introduction into their world wouldn’t help matters. Friends who knew the D-list actress as a child and teenager knew she was obsessed with Diana.

Samantha Markle, Meghan’s half-sister, even said that Meghan wore one of Diana’s favourite perfumes on her first date with Harry. If that’s not a lure, I don’t know what is. This shows even today when she dresses like the mother-in-law; she never knew but wishes she did.

No One Can Live Up To Diana

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I wrote around when Tom Bower’s book, Revenge, dropped that Harry’s maternal family, the Spencers, did not see Meghan in the same light he did. They could not see Diana in Markle at all. Even William and Catherine couldn’t see it.

Like Meghan, Catherine never knew Diana. However, she knew enough stories about the late Princess of Wales to get an idea of the type of woman she had been. William was also on a fact-finding mission to understand his mother’s flaws.

Despite the image she projected to the public, Diana was as flawed as they came. She had mental health struggles, which were well-known to the royal family. During her pregnancy with Prince William, the Princess of Wales threw herself down the stairs as a cry for help. Unfortunately, Charles was not paying her attention as he should have been. After all, she was carrying his heir. Luckily, she was found, and her unborn son was uninjured.

Diana Wasn’t Perfect, And She Would Acknowledge That

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Harry doesn’t understand or want to acknowledge her as flawed despite using his mother for everything. He more or less married her when he walked down the aisle, and he never mentally aged past twelve, the age he was when Diana died.

If Diana were alive today, she would admit she wasn’t perfect. If those who knew her could agree, then Harry should’ve been able to get on board. But he needs to use the Saint Diana card not to get criticised, as he knows his mother holds a special place in people’s hearts.

My Two Cents

As someone with no memory of Diana, I have seen through the stack of readings I have done over the years that she had a massive heart for the people she served. She had no qualms with the royals outside of her marriage to Charles. Despite her troubles within the family, it was no secret that she was a staunch monarchist.

She always said William would be fine, but she worried about Harry.

Harry And His Victim Narrative

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Harry lives in his own version of Lala land. He thinks that his father and brother will take him and Meghan back into the family and allow them to continue to trash them. Yeah, that’s not how life works, especially in a monarchy. During one of the promos for his interviews with Anderson Cooper and Tom Bradby, he said he wants to be part of a family, not an institution. Umm. That is what his family is. An institution. He cannot help that he was born a prince.

His father would’ve been King, and his mother had they remained together, would’ve been Queen Consort if she had lived. However, that didn’t happen, and in Harry’s fragile and maddening mind, his mum should’ve been Queen, not Camilla.

What Harry Fails To Realise Or Acknowledge

Harry doesn’t appear to understand that his great-grandmother, The Queen Mother, and one of his mother’s female relatives schemed to get Charles and Diana to marry. And guess what? It happened! Charles and Diana were put in a difficult position. Charles was in his thirties when the marriage occurred and needed an heir. Camilla couldn’t give that to him as a virginal bride was required.

Also, do you think Charles and Diana knew what son would be born first? No. Of course, they didn’t. But, thank god, William is the firstborn. Harry can cry all he wants about how unfair his privileged life is, but he is just exposing the annoying aspects of his life; he’s jealous of his brother. He always was and hid it well.

Becoming The Maddening Villain

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Would the royal family want to make Harry the villain of his story? As someone who has followed the British royals since William and Catherine’s 2011 wedding, the answer is no. It’s maddening that he would even think this. He believes his alternate reality is real life. It’s sad. However, his mental health has never been stable.

I know people with mental health issues, and they manage to control them. Harry is overrun by anger, hate, and jealousy, fueled by the need to feel more important than William. His insecurities started well before Meghan came on the scene. During an interview for HeadsTogether, he said he never spoke about Diana’s death as he knew it wouldn’t bring her back.

Wouldn’t the less annoying thing to do with me be to reminisce about your time with her? That is the whole point of having photos and videos to reflect on the good stuff. Also, does Harry not realise that he and Meghan are just talking themselves in circles?

Trash Talking Your Family In Public, Won’t Win You Reunion Points

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Harry claims he wants to reconcile with his family. He wants his brother and father back, but they have no interest. Umm. I wonder why that is… Oh, wait… I know why. You trashed them on the public stage! He allowed his wife to bully Catherine, Charlotte and the staff. To make it worse, he joined in with the staff harassment.

Once upon a time, his staff loved him. He used to make them tea and coffee, and then Meghan came along and stopped all that. Why? Because she felt it was beneath him. Then, renowned royal photographer Arthur Edwards said that Harry used to engage with the photographers while he was on royal tours and used to buy them drinks. But, when the missus came along, he wanted nothing to do with them. Hmm.

Harry even admitted during the Harry & Meghan docuseries they did for Netflix that he lost friends due to his relationship with Meghan. Ah… is this a severe cry for help? Wanting his brother and father back is another one. He needs to make the first move. William and Charles cannot do that for him. Though in his mind, they did everything wrong, and they’re horrible people because they didn’t like Meghan.

It’s no wonder that Jack Brooksbank and Princess Eugenie gave Harry and Meghan the cold shoulder at The Queen’s funeral.

Saint Harry: Never Did Anything Wrong In His Maddening Little World

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Harry is the Prince Andrew of his generation. There is no question. He doesn’t take accountability for anything, and he never apologised for being racist to his fellow servicemen and the people of South Africa when he said he was glad Chelsy wasn’t black.

His need to trash and send the Sussex Squad into hysterics is annoying and unnecessary. Though, I wonder what the squad members who hate his guts are saying. That would be interesting. Anyway, the maddening conclusion I have is that Harry will never learn. He thinks his once popularity is still booming. It’s not. He’s in the negative numbers, along with his wife and uncle.

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C.J. Hawkings has written for the now-defunct Entertainment website, Movie Pilot and the still functioning WhatCulture and ScreenRant. She prides herself as a truth seeker and will do (almost) anything for coffee or Coke No Sugar. Oh! And food!

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